Your Opinion is heard, but not considered....Deal with it.
Have you ever had a situation where you ask someones opinion on something....listen diligently nod, oh and ah, then the moment you walk away from them you toss it out the window and do what your head wants too?
this happens quite often with parents, friends, family and other loved ones, they give you their opinion on what they think is best for you and then , when you don't take it, they get mad? ...........................no?
someone must have had that before...
if you haven't, your lucky .. BUT and this a very happy majority BUT...
If you have, then you have probably come across phrases like "i told you so" OR " why don't you ever listen to me" or my favourite "man your stubborn, pigheaded, selfish etc ..."
Well here is the catch, here is the line we should start our sentences with , if we practised true authenticity .. then when we venture into these conversations..they should ideally sound something like this :
(listen xyz i need to talk to you about something, but please bear in mind that YOUR OPINION IS HEARD , BUT NOT CONSIDERED .)
why you ask...?
cause its true ,my point being....my rambles aim is this.. stop asking people, wasting their time, in the aid of hearng your own voice and then not doing it...reliving the drama and then wondering why your life is a mess...
to be quite honest, i can promise you if you start the conversation that way , it will save us all loads of time, we wont have to pretend we are listening, wont have to pretend we care, matter of fact we wont even have to go to bed , see you the next day still in the same rut and have to think aaah shame....or better yet "listen you know the advice you gave me last night....."
It doesn't matter what i think , i am going to repeat this , IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT I THINK , you don't really care, truth be told, and no offence...
We all know your going to follow your head in the end.
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