StilettoRambler

UNLEASH...your inner kitten cause YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!

I have come across many types of women in my years, women you are tough, women who are sallow, women who think they are tough until they realise they have been lying to themselves.

 Women who are sweet but totally slutty, (dont get me wrong i dont mind that, but then i ask that you own it- and not get surprised if your falaundering ways gives you a bad reputation, ) *gasp* cause lets be honest with eachother - the world is cruel paradise, and thats just the way the cookie crumbles,  how your perceived is how you are treated.

Women that compromise the self, women that are to uncompromising , and then sweet plane janes , divas, bitches,  haters ,gossips- you name them i have met them,  but the women that this piece is dedicated to are those that make excuses, especially for their men, and there bad choices you know what i mean :

• His waiting for his ex- girlfriend to move out,
• He says he loves me, but cant leave cause of the children,
• He said its just not the right time for us,
• His not ready to commit,
• He hasn't called the whole week but Friday night you get 4 sms's  (hey was thinking of you ....)
• He first wants to establish himself and his career before anything else,
• His parents aren't ready to meet you.
• She was just a one night stand- a mistake-* Lies *
• His last relationship really hurt him , and thats why his behaving this way...
• His previous girlfriends really messed it up...
• His got great potential, i just need to stick it out, shape him , train him - BLAH BLAH
• He hasn't called me,but he was on face book yesterday, he said he was busy,
• Its not him, its me i am hard to handle

What eerks me the most is that these same women, and we have all been there wouldn't take that BS from another women- you would voice your opinion in a heart beat, put that little missy in her place stand your ground. so LADIES-

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...

All you really doing is telling those around you , that  you accept his behaviour,  in turn by accepting it- your telling him that  its OK!  for him  to have his cake and eat it too , and in one breath - your saying-  I AM JUST NOT THAT INTO MY SELF...

So here is the dish, unleash that inner kitten  or tiger if you will , cause you matter and i promise you YOU DESERVE BETTER!

There are tons of fish in the sea- i beg you throw that one back ,if he wont commit ,move on your time is precious, using his last relationship woes to act a fool is not OK- you are not his heartbreak hotel. If he can only call you on a Friday night, its about him- not you, If his married his a straight up NO GO ZONE. you are worth more than just being the other women, the passerby, the one before the one, the overnight meaningful relationship, the booty call, your an authentic, self loving goddess and you deserve a dotting greek god.

Start today, stand your ground, get rid of the fluff and fools! stop making excuses let out that inner tiger

your thoughts?