Monogamy…… An convenient control mechanism OR….someone’s idea of a cruel joke?
The mother of all risks…
Monogamy…the act consisting of two people entering into an exclusive relationship with one another..….usually leading up to pheromones like marriage, marriage the act of committing to this someone for a lifetime….a life time..
A lifetime of less sex, less adventure, more compromise, more sacrifice..Less romance, harder work…less play ….less communication, more resentment….
Monogamy investing all your eggs in one basket and crying when the market crashes and your investment is lost..
For the last few days I have been walking around with monogamy on my mind…
Divorce rates are growing by the day, relationships end all the time …..Women and men have more freedom than ever before financially, sexually , yet without fail they continue and guard matrimony whole heatedly committing to exclusivity …
More confused I get as I delve further… if this doctrine is so important
Has so much weight….then why in the world does it constantly fail us….its the definition of insanity…people its not working why are you doing it over and over?
Are we overestimating our ability ….do we not really understand fidelity? Loyalty? Commitment?
Are these just big words and actions we as society have given precedence to in order to seem less primitive?...
I go on to think,… by the stats alone this idea or should I say ideal…. is not working and I am starting to wonder If we as humans are “
Getting it wrong by mistake or by design…?
We all need sex , intimacy and we all desire love..But the connection, between the two don’t happen to last as long as the need for each of them…
Does pairing up exclusively really stand as the poster child of happiness?, or should we stop bull shitting ourselves, have a look around and admit that we have no idea what we are signing up for..
Honestly speaking…do we need to commit exclusively for a lifetime in order to be happy ? Or can we sustain a mutually beneficial relationship without the cloud of till death do us part..Looming
Does it make you selfish if you want to share love instead of divide it? Is it wrong to argue that its not working so maybe try another route?
Does it mean a lack of respect cause you may desire a wife and a husband?
Or does it leave you doomed to live a life in the shadows, passing up other reasons, seasons and lifetimes that may cross your path…
Monogamy…if bees where monogamous with flowers…we would never have the different varieties on earth as we have now..Just a thought….
So yes, monogamy.. my problem with you is that you false advertise, and i am not a fan of un- authenticity ,
stop the crap and tell the people that practice you the ugly, the inconvenient truth... so they know what they signing up for....seriously have some decency.....stop the crap you advertise like respect, love , loyalty, picket fences and swings in the back yard, casseroles and growing old together..your a Wolf in sheep skin, and i need you to realise that " i see you"
cause the reality of you monogamy is ... a honeymoon phase, that ends up with two ships passing in the night, custody battles and the BIG D.
its not by mistake or design that we fail ...its due to the fact that you are a liar
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