StilettoRambler

The golden Vajajay

Ladies Ladies ladies…where is the grace in walking into a bar and there are at least five men that know where on your body you have a birth mark…OR how you moan…

I watched a movie entitled “ what is your number” a time ago and the premise was about how many men …women have been with?

Firstly I don’t think that, that is an appropriate question or bar conversation and it got my thinker racing…

I am not against having a healthy adventures bedroom life with a trusted partner, but I sometimes wonder if we as women don’t give it up to quickly?

I was chatting with a few guys and I asked them how they feel about it,   and the response I got was…that they don’t have that much respect for “ take aways” …yes take aways..,

This then lead me onto thinking ...about why women don’t treat themselves like they own  golden vajajys…

why is it so easy to move to that step with so much haste…how in this world are we going to be walking around with independent fierce anthems as our mottos , take no BS and stand up for ourselves  as well as how we want to be treated…and then at the same time just give up our gold on a silver platter?

Is it that we don’t really understand our worth? Or fragility?...is it that maybe we are taking this gender equality thing to far?

 Don’t we get that we are precious gifts and that not just any old soul gets to go digging for gold?

We complain that there are barely any real gentlemen left in this world and that chivalry is dead..but on the flip side, are there any real gentleladies left?

How can we complain that men these days are dogs and only after one thing, when we are handing it out like its free food?

I don’t blame men for not courting and wooing or trying to seduce or even get to know their female interests …I mean the market they are shopping in is a  freaking free for all ….gold is just being given out freely ………………so why in the hell should they treat it like it or you like something special?

Maybe??????

 I go onto think, that if women first start with shifting their minds to the fact that their vajajys are indeed golden v..then maybe the other things such as

·         self respect,

·         teaching people how to treat them or

·          knowing their boundaries

Would not be something they need to demand or search for …maybe these things would become a given….…and less of them would land up broken , misused …bruised or abused..

They say that what you put out into the world is what you will get back…what you reap is what you sow..

So maybe we need to start having a serious look at what collective message we are putting out there..and realize that the behavoiur we are  receiving from men..is based on the messages we are giving them.

Start acting like you have a golden vajajy..and maybe just maybe the treatment you get may change to....

Just a thought…

What are yours?