WHO ARE YOU TO ME...? WHO AM I TO YOU?
It is both by
design and nature that the brain will go out of its way to heal any disturbances
that it may come across within the physical body.
If you have a
cut, it starts the process of creating new skin, if your bone cracks or breaks;
it jumps into the process of re-constructing it.
The living
body’s(brain) optimal performance
state for thriving consist of interconnected
pieces that function as a whole, and thus it is always striving to be complete,
therefore constantly repairing itself or its host.
For me the emotional
brain is exactly the same, (also known as
your heart self and or soul.)
however
unlike the rational brain, the emotional brain is slightly handicapped, in that
it does not own the power of regeneration, it can only heal through attraction –
or relation.
This brings
me to, relationships (of all kinds) and why it’s important to always love and
live mindfully of them- or conscious.
Unless you
grew up in a cave and have not been exposed to life and all its hurdles, you like
many of us, are walking around with a broken “emotional brain” therefore EVERY
single relationship you have is an attempt, for your emotional brain to fix
itself and become whole.
With that said,
“The people that you draw to yourself are
there to reflect another part of yourself, back to you. As such, each
relationship in our lives gives us the opportunity to accept, heal and love
another part of ourselves.”
If you believe
that you are not worthy of love, or that you are better single than in a relationship,
or if you are constantly attracting “broken “people.. Whom need fixing,
then you will in turn attract people whom will not treat you as worthy, and whose
emotional baggage (drama), or lack of self- love, you now also have to take on…all
this emotional turmoil that you put yourself through daily, all the fights, heartache and misunderstandings is nothing more than an attempt to heal.
Now all
is fair and well with that, its the reason sayings such as " what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" was invented, its why hind sight has 20\20 vision, and as I have said people are journeys on the road
to self love and self discovery,
But this
post is aimed to plant the seed of mindfulness ….
be mindful of the
people in your life and their purpose on your journey,
be mindful of the fact that if you do attract your
healing situation or relationship, (and you’re not mindful of why this relationship
is in your life, accept it without question and sleepwalk through it. and you thus don’t use it to heal the part of your broken emotional
brain, then you will forever find yourself in a vicious cycle of terrible relationships.
And the road to true authentic love and happiness will be nothing but cold and winding.
And the road to true authentic love and happiness will be nothing but cold and winding.
So I challenge you today,take a second , sit back and have an audit of the friendships and relationships in your life and ask “who are you to me” “ why are you
here?” what is the lesson?” or simply “ what am I trying to heal? “
