Love Revolution vs love Revitalization
-THE CHANGE BEGINS WITH YOU
I am
currently reading a book called the love revolution, unlike the title ,it has
very little to do with relationships witch was my initial impression, but has more to do with how poverty
stricken the world is and in order to change all the worlds current alignments, love and revolution are the key fundamentals to the change ...or a love revolution.
The concept of a love revolution however.. got my mind
playing around with the idea of a revolution in general, can one have a revolution in your love life? or current relationship? or
even a revolution of the self... ?This sudden fascination with the concept sent me into a researching frenzy on what a revolution means?! and what it entails… hours and weeks even months of research later and being more clued in ...I thought..
Wouldn’t
it be brilliant , if people applied the theory of a revolution to themselves? or
even their relationships?
Endless articles later I realized that there are tons of information on revitalizing love, and oneself but I wasn't interested in the idea of going on a retreat with your loved one , or a dinner date or taking yourself for a spa date, or reading a self-help book or even attending a seminar.... this is not so much revolutionizing!
Endless articles later I realized that there are tons of information on revitalizing love, and oneself but I wasn't interested in the idea of going on a retreat with your loved one , or a dinner date or taking yourself for a spa date, or reading a self-help book or even attending a seminar.... this is not so much revolutionizing!
So what's a Revolution?
A revolution is a sudden. Complete . Profound change in the
way people live or work, it is a significant change that usually occurs suddenly,
with the aim of changing the way things were before. sudden... complete.. profound.
A Revolution
focuses on personal behaviour. It is not just a call to action; it is a call to
being…. being the person who goes out of
their way to encourage CHANGE,
ignite change, or inspire change.
Change
for a situation that is out of hope;
being the one in your current situation who is willing to do something
for nothing more than bettering ,or turning a situation around.
Now I ask
again, would that not be brilliant for the self or for a relationship? ... the idea to
decide today to rally all the troops inside you and venture out on a LOVE
REVOLUTION?
Revolutions require martyrs, or hero’s.. people who will go to the ends of earth for love to reign, for change , for bettering a current situation....this means choosing to be the one person in your life or love life to spark new hope, ignite old passion and inspire a mutually beneficial way forward.
If you
are sitting today and you have realized that its time to fight against things
that have become so wrong in your life or relationship, that they should no longer be!Revolutions require martyrs, or hero’s.. people who will go to the ends of earth for love to reign, for change , for bettering a current situation....this means choosing to be the one person in your life or love life to spark new hope, ignite old passion and inspire a mutually beneficial way forward.
Things that were once small ,that have now become SO big, but are none the less STILL wrong OR at least must be made small again then ….
A revolution, or complete turnaround, a LOVE revolution may be EXACTLY what you need, this may be what is needed if you want to see some of the tragic injustices in your relationship or heart or life - go away
We all
know that relationships can be a gift and a curse, in that one moment , the
relationship world is your oyster, filled with countless romantic possibilities,
and then suddenly within the blink of an eye ,you and
your significant other are floating in a desert like abyss, with not an oasis in sight for your relationship to drink
from, things are dull, uncomfortable, wrapped in anger and resentment , coupled
with constant knit picking and giant pretty EXIT signs around every corner of
your thoughts.
We are all aware that our lives could have been going on a great path, we are working on ourselves, we are choosing to be better, we are doing the work to piece the puzzles back together and then suddenly we get comfortable, and before we know it we are busy with things or people or mind-sets that don't serve our growth or happiness.
That being said..This
post isn’t just a call to action; it’s a call to being . . . choosing today to
being the person in your current situation to become the agent of change.We are all aware that our lives could have been going on a great path, we are working on ourselves, we are choosing to be better, we are doing the work to piece the puzzles back together and then suddenly we get comfortable, and before we know it we are busy with things or people or mind-sets that don't serve our growth or happiness.
Choosing to help a friend instead of walk away, to forgive a loved one instead of harbouring resentment, choosing to apologize even if you did no harm, choosing to own the pain that you may have helped to create.
Most importantly though choosing to be the person who chooses to practice uncompromising acts of kindness! all in plight of revolutionizing the status quo.
I repeat myself choosing to practice UNCOMPROMISNG ACTS OF KINDNESS.
Well
according to research, a revolution requires a few fundamental things:
1.Know your goal – Decide today that you want change,
that you want a healthy relationship or a fulfilling life. Think long and think hard, as this is a decision of the heart,
and if a love revolution is what you
have decided on TODAY, then be HELL BENT
on having a good attitude in making it work- hear me when I say HELL BENT – as in
come hell or high water- you being the hell and the high water!2.Work towards the change – A love revolution must be dedicated to making things better.
I have come to realize that talking is not expensive, nor does it require much effort, but real love is costly.
o
It
will cost you time,
o
it will cost you money,
o
it
will cost you your EGO,
o
It will mean having to forgive,
-yourself for doing things that do not serve your growth.
-forgive your partner for all their wrongs
-yourself for doing things that do not serve your growth.
-forgive your partner for all their wrongs
3.Respect - Treat each other right ,treat yourself right – do what is right no matter what forget that they should’ve done this ....and should’ve done that... and don’t do enough of this.....and don’t do enough of that..... treat each other right because of RESPECT- full stop.
The change begins with you. Choose the Love Revolution.
StilettoRambler.
