Stop Being A Pu$$Y! : Rather the Devil you Know, then
the Devil you don’t?! -B.S
“Going into the unknown is how you expand what is known”
I once made the wrong decisions, in one of the chapters of my life novel,
because I read the following line in a book “its unbearable to stay, but
impossible to leave” and this line soon became a
belief that fed my many many fears ,
I
was scared I wouldn’t love again so... I stayed, survive without a number of
people so.. I compromised, get another awesome job so ....I sold my soul , make new friends… so I swallowed the old ones treatment
or lack there off,... but oddly enough here I am thriving, dancing, working and
loving.
However , The point of my post is that, my beliefs
were keeping me firmly planted in the bosom of the devils that I knew, the ones that “ metaphorically, were keeping
me bathed, fed and safe aka“ happy”.
The only problem however was that I was living in a vicious cycle of fear, panic
attacks, darkness, crying fits and a
general feeling dread and feeling “stuck” ... my beliefs were killing me softly, i was stuck
Stuck in a world that I had CREATED MYSELF AND HAD MANAGED TO convinced
myself was “in the “ ABSOLUTE PURSUE OF
HAPPIINES”....authentic
EVEN, THOUGH IT FELT. “Unbearable
to stay, AND impossible to leave. OR
scary to change and crippling to try”
I
then stumbled onto a book called the:
gift of fear and soon realized,
I was
being a Pu$$y..full stop.
It enlightened
me to the lesson of fear, that fears are emotional reactions, perceived as
threats, emotional reactions that stem from beliefs that you make up, and deem to
be TRUE.
After reading what fear is, and
what causes these intense crippling emotions, the book broke it down to me with
a " swirft realness" about what fear REALLY is. What its
actual role is and what it really stands for :
F. E .A.R – turns out to be -,False Evidence Appearing Real,
did it hit like a brick? Yes. did it make sense? - Yes. did it confirm that i was being a wuss? - hells Yes
It then
went off to say that if your fearing it, it’s not really happening,so calm the f down, cause if
it was happening, you would be too busy DEALING with it , then fretting about
it. ( read that again) ( again) and one more time).
So ..Here
is the ugly, moral of my story
Change your beliefs, change your life, NOW - Right now! It’s time you
stopped being a f#cking pussy.
·
not everything you belief is true,
·
Not challenging your beliefs will without a doubt make your fears a
reality .
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If you think you are trying BULL, trying is not doing, trying is not change. and if you aren’t changing them, your lying to yourself.
So just stop, Dare the devil you don’t know – challenge the
beliefs that are holding you back! i.e.:
·
I won’t get a better job.
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It’s too hard to leave.
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No one will ever truly love me.
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I am a product of my past
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Bad things always happen to me.
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If I don’t do this, my friends won’t like me.
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To
keep his love, I must give up this and or that.
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I cant love , cause I am from an abusive home
·
I cant trust , cause I always get screwed
over
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Men are all the same
·
Blah blah blah
Instead
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Scare yourself a little bit every day
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Change your outlook and beliefs – change your life- re- write your script
·
Take
a leap of faith on yourself.
·
Focus
on what is actually happening and not what your delusional brain is feeding
you, especially if you find yourself staying, and still completely suffering.
Cause the devil you do know, also knows you toooo well,
and will continue to cripple you.
Seriously though,
is there really anything to be afraid off?
Your
thoughts
Stilettorambler
Thank you for sharing this!!! Much needed.
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