and those who suffer from it.
"You text, You talk, You have sex. S\he withdraws, comes back and blames you for ignoring them, or using them, you apologise. Start the dance all over again and before you know it You text, You talk, You have sex and s\he withdraws.
OR
S\he tells you to stay out of their life, yet finds ways of bringing drama into yours.
Constantly seeks your attention, but continuously tells you that they hate the day you walked into their life's.
The emotion vampires, that suck all the positive energy out of you and yours, breaks up and makes up with you , more often than the minutes in a day, yet still convinces you that the bond you have with them is special and without you in their life's, the world would simply be dark.
I call this disease the toxic girl\guy syndrome, and the cause the "god complex", the fetishes for the broken winged man and women has been coming to my attention of late.
I have come to meet the
Emotional terrorist:The person that's just a tiny bit more sensitive than the situation requires, whose manipulative nature holds you “hostage” to each and every one of their whims ,They have a tendency to go from 0 to 100.. putting you under constant pressure, and making you look like the sad "whipped" version of yourself.
Then I have met the:
The flirt:They make you take the oath of celibacy,and spend the entire evening flirting with everything that has a pair of legs, leaving you to spend most of your waking hours wondering if their sleeping with every person they come across, and then to put icing on the cake, gives you the side eye when you stand up to take a call...and treat you like the horn dog...then when it all hits the fan, they break down and explain to you, that they have an intense care for you, and the thought of sharing you drives them crazy..
And then off course, my favourite:
The you "complete me" : Mr\Misses i need you, Mr\ Miss co-dependent.
It has come to my attention that men and women, are quite fond of the idea, and quite quickly fall prey to someone , who makes them feel that the sun shines out of there...
this need, and co- dependency angle that they use on there prey, seems to pack quite a manipulative punch.
strange and wonderful as it is, i often wonder if the need for their happiness, peace of mind, physical or mental stimulation, being constantly tied to their partners, doesn't just causes resentment?
Don't miss understand me, I get the flattery aspect of it, but don't you sometimes wonder, if it has anything to do with you as a person?
haven't you ever thought that they may just be emotional bottom feeders? hosts? that are more worried about what needs their specimen can fulfil, as opposed to the specimen themselves?
doesn't it just bother you that, the feelings they have for you don’t have much to do with who you are as a person?
I sometimes wonder if people out there involved in relationships with others,are even aware that they may be suffering from toxic syndrome..or do, do they now how to get out of the cycle?
here is my advice, stop wasting your time, emotional well being and sanity.
StilettoRambler
