YOUR INTENTIONS DON’T MATTER!
Your intentions whether to cause harm, or not do not matter at all, your actions speak much louder in any event.
How often have you come across a situation where someone has
said, or acted in a negative way towards you? basically defined in my terms as “not having your best interest at heart”... only
to use the ‘” intention excuse “ in the
end of it all?
You then as most people would,approach and confron the culprit about their recent dodgy
behaviour.. only for them to sheepishly drop the biggest cop out line for the mileniums to come;
“it was never my intention
...to alert , share your secret, to hurt, upset etc you”
well I call BS on intentions, cause they don’t really matter, due to the fact that the
actions have spoken louder in any event.
whether or not a friend,
lover or partner acts or does something intentionally is not important, unless more
often than none their behaviour is of an offensive kind and subsequently forms part of a body of
evidence,
that suggests that they do not
have your best interest at heart, you can then
be assured that they do not have the integrity, conscientiousness and
level of personal responsibility that could ever add up as part of any
relationship, never mind a healthy
mutual one.
So to all of you out there that have been , the target of maliciousness
or the collateral damage of an unavailable man..deception or betrayl of any kind today's lesson\ and ugly truth is short but important one,.
A mutually beneficial
relationship, is one based on care, respect and trust to mention a few
AND When All is said and done, its not about whether there
intent was malicious or not , as the result of it will speak for it selves, so
intentions not matter, don’t waste your time, allowing them to become a valid
excuses for dodgy behaviour.
StilettoRambler
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