The "hater stare down" -Own your lime-light...Green is not a good colour on you.
Dear ladies, divas and sisters out theer, this post is for you , especially if you partake in the phenomena called the " hater stare down."
This particular rant, its aimed at that special " stare -down"
you know..... the look you give when another women walks into a bar or club and the rest of the females in the room give her the up and down...with the slight snarl
Followed by the "OMG who does she think she is?" yes ....now- you get me, the "hater stare down"
Well i thought today is the day tackle and answer the question for you and tell you who she is and why you need to stop that nonsense and embrace your fellow sistas..---
she my dearest is you, she is me. she is your sister, cousin , mother she is the soil, she is the carrier of life, the provider for her family, and her friends, she is the hardworking you , the independent you, the strong you .. authentic you , the loving and caring you ...and by not embracing her ..you are not embracing you.
get a real with yourself and realize that see may not be your buddu or friend but she is your sista!
SO, instead of giving sistas and divas you see walk into a room ,whom you perceive to be a threat the "Hater stare down..."
Start acting like you know that she is an extension of you ( the human race) and replace that thought firstly .
- with a smile, and then,
- secondly with THIS line "
The UGLY truth HERE is that NO one can take AWAY your shine or lime-light or spot light..why..cause you were born with it!,
SO STOP ACTING LIKE SOMEONE IS TRYING TO STEAL YOUR FOOD, ITS SAD AND PATHETIC.
it is yours, their is no need, to break down, or compete with another sista for something that is inside you.
Now get a clue and start blinding the world out there with your innate brilliance
If you had the common sense to take a good look in the mirror you would soon realize that no one can take your lime-light from you...
The way i see it, there are no ugly or unattractive women in this world.
There are only different variations of gorgeous walking around and its time you realize that!
SO pls cut the BS and start supporting each other.
No shoe, dress or hairstyle will make the light that shines in you glow brighter or dim down, neither will another sista or Diva , and this is something you all must quickly realize...and with haste.
i am tired of the lack of support that females give each other, goodness gracious, wake up and relalize that you are women! and that already makes you a gift-FULL STOP
you are life, love and laughter, you are what men desire and almost every love song in the world is dedicated to.. So instead of breaking down, i urge you to build up, instead of trying to look or dress like someone else, own your OWN
Green is a great colour , but layering it with the "hater stare down" ruins yourentire outfit.
Your thoughts?
Amen! The hater stare down can be a destructive force, and every woman everywhere has felt it's power. It is so true that we need to stop, each and every one of us - do onto others as would have done onto you!
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